These unusual symptoms will generally have been present most of the time, for a period of longer than ten days.

Mood swings are common and many women report feeling numb.

1. Depression:

  • Feeling sad; suicidal thinking
  • Feeling overwhelmed with fatigue
  • Feeling hopeless
  • Feeling guilty
  • Feeling lonely, abandoned, unsupported
  • Feeling no love for baby
  • Forgetfulness, indecisiveness

2. Anger:

  • Feeling out of control
  • Feeling angry most of the time
  • Fighting with other people
  • Feeling irritable
  • Feeling frustrated
  • Feeling trapped

3. Anxiety:

  • Feeling anxious most of the time; “knot in my stomach”
  • Fear that she might harm herself, the baby or others
  • Fearfulness: being alone, going out, unbearable, obsessive anxiety over health, her own, baby’s, baby’s father
  • Panic attacks, feeling panicky
  • Frightening thoughts; that she/the baby/her partner is not safe

4. Loss:

  • Of joy
  • Of motivation
  • Of interest in previous interests
  • Of interest in her own appearance, of taking care of herself
  • Of interest in sex, loss of libido
  • Of self-esteem and self-confidence
  • Of concentration, of the ability to think clearly
  • Of appetite – or control of appetite

5. Physical Symptoms:

  • Loss, or dramatic increase, of appetite – comfort eating, or being unable to eat
  • Weight loss or gain, beyond what is normal after having a baby
  • Insomnia – can’t sleep even when baby is asleep; early waking; sleep disturbances; wants to sleep all the time
  • Agitation, restlessness, or a general physical slowing down
  • Headaches, nausea, vomiting, other unusual physical symptoms